This will help you when everything goes wrong…

Published 27.03.2024 | By Йосиф

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This will help you when everything goes wrong…

1. Pain is part of growth.

Sometimes life closes doors because it’s time to move. And this is good, because we often do not start moving unless circumstances force us. When times get tough, remind yourself that no pain comes without a purpose.

Move on from what hurts you, but never forget the lesson it teaches you. Just because you are struggling doesn’t mean you are failing. Every great success requires a worthy struggle to be present. Good things take time. Stay patient and confident. Everything will be alright; most likely not in a moment, but eventually everything will be… Remember that there are two types of pain: pain that hurts and pain that changes you. As you go through life, instead of resisting it, help it develop you.

2. Everything in life is temporary.

Always when it rains, you know it will end. Every time you are hurt, the wound heals. After darkness there is always light – you are reminded of this every morning, but nevertheless it often seems that the night will always last. It will not happen. Nothing lasts forever. So, if everything is good right now, enjoy it. This won’t last forever. If things are bad, don’t worry because it won’t last forever either. Just because life isn’t easy at the moment doesn’t mean you can’t laugh. Just because something is bothering you doesn’t mean you can’t smile. Every moment gives you a new beginning and a new ending. Every second you get a second chance. Just use it.

3. Worrying and complaining won’t change anything.

Those who complain the most achieve the least. It’s always better to try to do something big and fail than to try to succeed without doing anything. Nothing is over if you lose; it’s over if you’re really just complaining. If you believe in something, keep trying. And no matter what ultimately happens, remember that true happiness only begins to arrive when you stop complaining about your problems and start being grateful for all the problems you don’t have.

4. Your scars are symbols of your strength.

Never be ashamed of the scars life has given you. The scar means that there is no more pain and the wound has healed. This means that you have overcome the pain, learned a lesson, become stronger and have advanced. The scar is a tattoo of triumph. Don’t let your scars hold you hostage. Don’t let them make you live in fear. Start seeing them as a sign of strength. Jalaluddin Rumi once said: “Through your wounds, light enters you.” Nothing could be closer to the truth. From suffering came the strongest souls; The most powerful people in this big world are marked with scars. Look at your scars as a slogan: “YES! I DID IT! I survived and I have the scars to prove it! And now I have a chance to become even stronger.”

5. Every little battle is a step forward.

In life, patience is not the same as waiting; it is the ability to maintain a good mood while working hard towards your dreams. So if you are going to try, go all the way. Otherwise there is no point in starting. This could mean losing stability and comfort for a while, and perhaps even your sanity. You may have to not eat what you used to or sleep as much as you used to for weeks on end. This may mean changing your comfort zone. This may mean sacrificing relationships and everything you know. This may mean the appearance of ridicule. This can mean loneliness. Solitude, however, is a gift that makes many things possible. You will get the space you need. Everything else is a test of your endurance, of how much you really want to achieve your goal. And if you want it, you will do it, despite failures and disagreements. And every step you take you will feel better than you can imagine. You will understand that struggle is not an obstacle on the way, it is a path.

6. Other people’s negative reactions are not your problem.

Be confident when bad things surround you. Smile when others try to defeat you. This is an easy way to maintain your own enthusiasm. When other people talk bad about you, continue to be yourself. Never let someone else’s conversations change you. You can’t take things too personally, even if it seems personal. Don’t think that people do things for you. They do things for themselves. Above all, never change to impress someone who says you are not good enough. Change if it makes you better and leads you to a brighter future. People will talk no matter what you do or how well you do it. Worry about yourself, not about the opinions of others. If you believe in something, don’t be afraid to fight for it. Big strength comes from overcoming the impossible.

7. What needs to happen will happen.

You gain strength when you stop yelling and complaining and start smiling and appreciating your life. There are blessings hidden in every struggle you face, but you must be willing to open your heart and mind to see them. You can’t make things happen. You can only try. At a certain point, you have to let go and allow what is meant to happen. Love your life, trust your intuition, take risks, lose and find happiness, learn through experience. It’s a long trip. You must stop worrying, questioning and doubting at any moment. Laugh, enjoy every moment of your life. You may not know exactly where you intended to go, but you will eventually arrive where you are supposed to be.

8. Just keep moving.

Don’t be afraid to get angry. Don’t be afraid to love again. Don’t let the cracks in your heart turn into scars. Understand that strength increases every day. Understand that courage is beautiful. Find in your heart what makes others smile. Remember that you don’t need many people in your life, so don’t strive to have more “friends.” Be strong when things get tough. Remember that the universe always does what is right. Admit when you are wrong and learn from it. Always look back, see what you have achieved and be proud of yourself. Don’t change for anyone if you don’t want to. Do more. Live more simply. And never stop moving.

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