Things a good parent forbids their child, and should not

Published 27.10.2023 | By Йосиф

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Things a good parent forbids their child, and should not

Nowadays it is much more difficult to raise a child, whether it is a toddler or a teenager. The main reason is not in the children, but in the world we created for them. No longer do adults have anything in common with those of our time, social media is always there when we are missing in a child’s life.

Today we present you 5 things that good parents forbid the child, and should not:

1. Eating junk food

Let’s be honest: almost every child likes junk food – chips, snacks, candy and fatty Donuts from the warm showcase of major food chains. When parents ban this type of food, it becomes a taboo in the child’s mind and is eaten at the first opportunity.

Experts believe that parents should from time to time allow their children such junk food to understand that they can have chips at home, and not go to a birthday party and eat a whole package. In addition, children will understand that there is no need to hide the package of secretly eaten sweets from their mother. Banning certain foods makes it an obsession for children.

2. Spending personal money on useless things

According to a study, modern children often spend their savings on digital devices or downloadable files, or toys. Many parents think this is stupid and forbid their children to buy useless things. However, parents should stop using this approach for 2 reasons:

First, if you gave money to your child, it became his property. Only he can decide what to spend it on. This is especially important in families where children earn money for housework.
Secondly, it can be useful for a child to spend money on shit and then regret that he did it. Only by doing so will they learn how to control their spending and distinguish current desires from really important needs and desires.

3. Carefree

Psychologists are seriously concerned that modern children have become much more anxious and depressed than previous generations. The reason partly lies in the fact that many children have to participate in something similar to a competition in order to gain certain knowledge. The school program is becoming more and more difficult.

Therefore, the modern child has a strong need to do nothing. If there is a vacancy in his schedule, do not rush to fill it with new tasks. Sometimes children need to do absolutely nothing to rest their minds.

4. Skip school

Sometimes we may even need to create free time for our children artificially, especially when we notice that they are depressed or stressed. Good performance in school is not the main thing, the main thing is the mental health of the student overwhelmed by school tasks. If you see that your child needs a break, give him the opportunity to slow down and listen to himself – what does he want, what does he dream about? Because sometimes it’s hard to find the time and energy to search for answers to such simple questions in the maelstrom of all the tasks that parents and children have.

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