Fake people

Published 03.05.2024 | By Йосиф

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Fake people

In a world where sincerity is often masked by duplicity, it is crucial to distinguish between real and deception. Fake people, often masters of the art of manipulation, use certain phrases and tactics to gain your trust and carry out their own plans.

Here are 10 phrases to be wary of because they can signal insincerity.

1. “You can trust me.”

Ironically, when someone feels the need to voice such reassurance, it often becomes a red flag. Trust is earned through actions, not just words.

2. “I’ve never told anyone this before.”

Although they may seem to trust you, be careful. If people are quick to share “secrets,” they may not value privacy as much as they claim.

3. “You are unlike anyone else.”

This kind of flattery is meant to make you feel special and unique, but it is often used to lower your defenses and create a false sense of intimacy.

4. “I hate drama.”

Often those who talk about hating drama are actually the ones who excel at it. They may be trying to distance themselves from their own tendencies to create or escalate conflict.

5. “I’m just being brutally honest.”

While honesty is a virtue, using it as an excuse for being hurt or insensitive is a manipulative tactic. This is often a disguise for rudeness or lack of empathy.

6. “I always stand up for my friends.”

While this seems like a noble trait, in some contexts it can be a subtle way of asserting dominance or creating a sense of obligation—you may feel obligated to unquestioningly support them in return.

7. “I’m not like other people.”

This phrase is intended to create a sense of exclusivity and mystery, but is often a mask for a lack of authenticity or a desire to appear superior.

8. “Just between us…”

If someone often starts a conversation this way, be careful. They may use the cover of confidentiality to spread rumors or gossip.

9. “I have helped a lot of people.”

Beware of those who loudly promote their good deeds. Genuine kindness does not seek applause or recognition, and those who do may be seeking validation rather than truly helping others.

10. “You are the only one who understands me.”

This phrase can be a tactic to isolate you from others and create an unhealthy situation where you feel responsible for their emotional well-being.

Marina Karaseva

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