Three reasons why men leave good women

Published 01.05.2024 | By Йосиф

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Three reasons why men leave good women

Regardless of the circumstances, there are usually common reasons that your ex is probably hiding—secrets that are preventing him from fully expressing his feelings.

You may think: “No, this is not about us. My man was sensitive, open, even cried at the movies.” However, almost all men face similar relationship problems that can cause them to run away.

Understanding these relationship issues can help you get through a difficult breakup… or even get your ex back.

Here are three reasons why men leave good women:

1. He felt pressure and uncertainty.

Did you feel like you were constantly nagging him? Did you want more love, affection or sex than he could give? Have you often tried to “fix” the situation in your relationship?

If you recognize yourself in any of these areas, then most likely there was an imbalance in your relationship and he felt pressured and insecure in your presence. It is important to understand that his feelings of inferiority are not your fault.

Most men run away from emotional pressure as if they were running for their lives (because that’s what they think they’re doing). Emotional pressure challenges underdeveloped masculinity and makes him feel unprepared to deal with problems. It seems to him that everything he does is not good enough for you (and never will be).

Naturally, feelings of unresolved insecurity cause men to shut down and lock their hearts away, rather than learning to cope with new feelings of pressure or uncertainty.

2. There was a sense of competition in your relationship.

If a man has to fight for control in a relationship, he may feel insecure, as if there is no place for him in it.

Keep in mind: this is extremely important.

This does not mean that the man should control everything in the relationship. This would be unfair to both parties. Rather, successful relationships are built on complementary strengths, with each person relinquishing control in certain areas. If balance is not achieved, both sides begin to compete. They compete with each other to gain the upper hand, and the relationship suffers. This dynamic manifests itself in situations such as:

Do you argue about who was “right” in front of your friends?
Which one of you is the breadwinner? Did you make more money than him? And more importantly, was it used against him?
Are you constantly deciding where to eat, what to do, and what movie to watch?

If he felt like you were against him instead of on his side, he was probably never able to truly open his heart. He was afraid of losing this game and getting seriously injured.

3. He didn’t feel respected.

A man is not able to build a happy life with a woman who does not respect him. His partner should be his most loyal supporter – he should be sure that in the most difficult moments she will be there, supporting and accepting him. Because here’s the hidden truth about your importance: you are the key to his greatness.

In order for him to open up fully, showing tenderness and readiness for a serious relationship, he needs a strong and deep foundation of respect.

Marina Karaseva

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