If you’re serious about finding love

If you’re serious about finding love

Published 21.05.2024 | By Йосиф

If you’re serious about finding love

Finding love is like going on a great adventure full of emotions. It can be very exciting, but also challenging. Imagine if we could make this adventure easier by giving up some of the things that make everything difficult…

1. Stop playing games;

In the game of love, honesty is the golden rule. Stop the mind games and just be real. True connections happen when you stop pretending and show your true self. Pretense may win you the round, but sincerity wins hearts.

2. Stop rushing things;

Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither were lasting relationships. Slow down, enjoy the process and let things unfold naturally. Rushing can lead to mistakes, but true connections take time to strengthen. Patience is not just a virtue; this is the superpower of relationships.

3. Stop trying to change people;

Love people for who they are or let them go. Acceptance is the key to a strong connection. Trying to change someone is like rearranging furniture on a sinking ship: it won’t keep the ship afloat. Love their quirks or find someone whose quirks match yours.

4. Stop living in the past;

Dragging baggage from old heartaches into a new relationship is like planting weeds in a flower bed. Learn from the past, but don’t let it cloud your present. Every person is a new start, and remembering past hurts only blurs your vision of a potential future.

5. Stop neglecting self-love;

Before plunging into someone else’s world, build a cozy home within yourself. Self-love is not selfish; it is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Know your worth, accept your flaws, and watch your ability to love deepen when it starts from within.

6. Stop settling for less;

Love should give wings, not burden. Settled for less than you deserve is like buying a fake when you could be getting a real treasure. Know your worth, set standards and wait for someone who meets them. Quality over quantity, always.

7. Stop striving for perfection;

Perfection is an illusion, and chasing it can be exhausting. Embrace the beautiful imperfect journey of love. True connections are about accepting imperfection, not seeking perfection. Perfect imperfection is pure magic.

8. Stop overthinking;

Love is not a complicated math problem; this feeling. Overthinking every message, gesture, or silence can lead to unnecessary stress. Relax, enjoy the ride and let things unfold organically. Sometimes the best love stories are written without much analysis.

9. Stop comparing your love story;

Your love story is unique; don’t compare her to others. Social media feeds show only the best moments, not behind-the-scenes struggles. Focus on the beauty of your journey and remember: comparison is the thief of joy.

Marina Karaseva

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