12 reasons to love your loneliness

Published 11.03.2024 | By Йосиф

One day you will realize that you are left alone: 12 reasons to love your loneliness

Not everything in our lives is easy or generally possible to accept. But that’s life. Sometimes it’s enough just to look at it from a different angle…

Don’t be dramatic – you’re still alone. A person is born alone, lives alone and also dies alone. We are all alone in this world. This is the main truth, which is difficult, but very important to accept. How?

1. One day you will realize that you are alone.

In fact, you have always been alone, but this understanding is usually delayed. Parents die, husbands change, lovers cheat, children grow up. Or you yourself leave them because they are now strangers.
What worked yesterday breaks down. No matter what exactly happens, remember: loneliness is always behind you, like winter. Maturity is the ability to be alone without being dramatic. It’s better to prepare in advance.

2. Everyone except close relatives can be replaced.

No one and nothing comes in one copy. Let new people into your life, even if you don’t yet understand whether you have anything in common. One day you will realize that you are alone, and this will save you.

3. Always try new things.

Food, clothes, routes, gadgets, activities, films, books, theories and explanations of the universe.

The brain is made of lazy gum. The further it goes, the more it wants to bend in the same places, the rest of its convolutions tend to disappear. Don’t let him cling to the same things, pleasures, ways, methods and tricks.

Always try new things, especially when you are lazy, scared or don’t feel like it.

4. Forgive everyone you can, forget the rest.

Oblivion is the best punishment and the best medicine. And never argue with anyone.

5. There is no hurry.

Everything that happens quickly does not last long. If you really want something, do it. If you didn’t want to, then it wasn’t necessary.

Put off risky desires and actions, letting them rest. Do something that you are not sure about only if the desire has been persistently pursuing you for a long time.

6. If you really want something and you think it’s right, do it.

Desires are life. Let the desire live inside and follow it. If it doesn’t disappear, follow it.

7. Don’t give up until you want something.

Luck is experience, that is, the number of repetitions. Any failure is a lack of experience and is compensated by experience. Courage and risk are experiences.

What sometimes looks like utter impudence is experience. Fortitude, tolerance, forgiveness, resilience and independence are all experiences. The main thing is not to give up until you want something.

8. Nothing is the end, not even the end: everything is just a flow.

Remember this in despair, in grief, at the grave of a friend, reading a letter from a loved one who left you. There will certainly be a day when you say: “And for the better!” (especially for your loved one:)

9. Nothing is over, but the end is near.

And it’s more useful to think that he is tomorrow. Then it is easier to follow all these points.

10. Do what you want, but take care of your body, otherwise it will unexpectedly take revenge on you.

Get into the habit of asking what it wants and doing it. If you have never listened to your body and don’t know how it talks, start with simple things like forest walks, swimming or yoga.
Then everything will happen on its own: the body is waiting to be heard.

11. Romance, love and passion are wonderful. But if you confuse them with sex, you can be left without it for a long time.

And this is stupid and harmful. Make sure you have sex. May romance and love come and find you in bed with a new lover.

12. The last thing you should worry about is what people will think of you.

People think mainly about themselves, and also about you, measuring it by themselves. That is, they don’t think about you or each other. Do what you want and see point 7.

P.S. This is the only point about which there is no need to doubt: take care of your friends.

Friends are the only thing worth accumulating. One day you will realize that you are left alone, and your friends will immediately come and say: you are completely stunned, you have us. And it is true.

https://www.cluber.com.ua/lifestyle/psihologiya-lifestyle/2024/03/odnazhdy-ty-pojmesh-chto-ostalas-odna-12-prichin-polyubit-svoe-odinochestvo/

12 reasons to love your loneliness

12 reasons to love your loneliness

One day you will realize that you are left alone: 12 reasons to love your loneliness

Not everything in our lives is easy or generally possible to accept. But that’s life. Sometimes it’s enough just to look at it from a different angle…

Don’t be dramatic – you’re still alone. A person is born alone, lives alone and also dies alone. We are all alone in this world. This is the main truth, which is difficult, but very important to accept. How?

1. One day you will realize that you are alone.

2. Everyone except close relatives can be replaced.

No one and nothing comes in one copy. Let new people into your life, even if you don’t yet understand whether you have anything in common. One day you will realize that you are alone, and this will save you.

3. Always try new things.

Food, clothes, routes, gadgets, activities, films, books, theories and explanations of the universe.

The brain is made of lazy gum. The further it goes, the more it wants to bend in the same places, the rest of its convolutions tend to disappear. Don’t let him cling to the same things, pleasures, ways, methods and tricks.

Always try new things, especially when you are lazy, scared or don’t feel like it.

4. Forgive everyone you can, forget the rest.

Oblivion is the best punishment and the best medicine. And never argue with anyone.

5. There is no hurry.

Everything that happens quickly does not last long. If you really want something, do it. If you didn’t want to, then it wasn’t necessary.

Put off risky desires and actions, letting them rest. Do something that you are not sure about only if the desire has been persistently pursuing you for a long time.

6. If you really want something and you think it’s right, do it.

Desires are life. Let the desire live inside and follow it. If it doesn’t disappear, follow it.

7. Don’t give up until you want something.

Luck is experience, that is, the number of repetitions. Any failure is a lack of experience and is compensated by experience. Courage and risk are experiences.

What sometimes looks like utter impudence is experience. Fortitude, tolerance, forgiveness, resilience and independence are all experiences. The main thing is not to give up until you want something.

8. Nothing is the end, not even the end: everything is just a flow.

Remember this in despair, in grief, at the grave of a friend, reading a letter from a loved one who left you. There will certainly be a day when you say: “And for the better!” (especially for your loved one:)

9. Nothing is over, but the end is near.

And it’s more useful to think that he is tomorrow. Then it is easier to follow all these points.

10. Do what you want, but take care of your body, otherwise it will unexpectedly take revenge on you.

Get into the habit of asking what it wants and doing it. If you have never listened to your body and don’t know how it talks, start with simple things like forest walks, swimming or yoga. Then everything will happen on its own: the body is waiting to be heard.

11. Romance, love and passion are wonderful. But if you confuse them with sex, you can be left without it for a long time.

And this is stupid and harmful. Make sure you have sex. May romance and love come and find you in bed with a new lover.

12. The last thing you should worry about is what people will think of you.

People think mainly about themselves, and also about you, measuring it by themselves. That is, they don’t think about you or each other. Do what you want and see point 7.

P.S. This is the only point about which there is no need to doubt: take care of your friends.

Friends are the only thing worth accumulating. One day you will realize that you are left alone, and your friends will immediately come and say: you are completely stunned, you have us. And it is true.

https://www.cluber.com.ua/lifestyle/psihologiya-lifestyle/2024/03/odnazhdy-ty-pojmesh-chto-ostalas-odna-12-prichin-polyubit-svoe-odinochestvo/

Get into the habit of asking what it wants and doing it. If you have never listened to your body and don’t know how it talks, start with simple things like forest walks, swimming or yoga.
Then everything will happen on its own: the body is waiting to be heard.