Signs that someone is not well-intentioned towards you

Signs that someone is not well-intentioned towards you

Published 19.01.2024 | By Йосиф

Signs that someone is not well-intentioned towards you

Every day we have to communicate with different people. Along with work, hobbies, relationships, friendships and family relationships, we communicate with people we already know, but also with new ones. As a person gets older, it is quite natural to filter out the people around you, leaving those who have good intentions towards you and do not create a toxic environment for you. But how can we be sure that the people in our lives, even those we consider close, do not wish us harm?

Check out some clear signs that someone is up to you.

Unwarranted curiosity

People who do not mean well to us are always extremely curious about what is happening in our lives lately, what is our marital status, what is our salary, etc. The attention they show to you may be to share your weaknesses , fears, plans. On the other hand, you may have noticed that they are quite sparing with information about themselves.

Often flattery

Compliments are unnatural, their expression is exaggerated, the words are not emotionally supported. Flatterers are definitely easy to distinguish, so it is important to be careful with them. The flatterer, who does not wish you well, may give you kind words about your work, about your appearance.

Biting remarks

In front of you and your colleagues, relatives, friends. Or behind your back. Malicious people can be not only our acquaintances, but also people from our close circle. Their remark may sound like a joke, but is it, or is it just an easy way to smear you and get away with tarnishing you.

Devaluing your merits

This is a continuation of the previous point. Such a person will often try to devalue your every dignity. He will give everything to a happy coincidence, to the help of superiors, close colleagues. It will be difficult for him to sincerely congratulate you on your successes, and the expression on his face will most clearly tell you about it. It only shows envy.

He delights in your failures

When something bad happens to you, he may not be overtly happy, pretending to sympathize with you and want to help you. People who are not well-intentioned towards us will again and again ask questions and make comments about things that have caused us pain and disappointment, writes az-jenata.bg. They tend to bring us quite deliberately back to critical moments, pretending to be our supportive friends.

You feel uncomfortable around this person

Don’t ignore your intuition. If every time, in the presence of this person, your body gives you signals (headache, tension, feeling tired), then obviously this person is sending negativity to you, albeit hidden.

Puts you down in front of others

Supposedly as a joke. The person who is not well-intentioned towards you and perhaps even harbors a hidden hatred will not fail to vilify you in front of other people. He can tell situations from your shared moments, your childhood, etc., that you are not proud of, or make certain situations even more dramatic than they are.

It shows its true nature

People who wish us ill, act against us through manipulations, lies, create conflicts over small things. Sometimes they deliberately get into an argument with us, make us feel guilty even though we are not guilty, tell us that we cannot do this or that, point out the help they once gave us, etc.
Eli Stoyanova

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