Things that can destroy a relationship

Things that can destroy a relationship

Published 11.01.2024 | By Йосиф

Things that can destroy a relationship

A love relationship can be as stable as a redwood, but it can also be as fragile as a flower. It requires constant care from both partners. There are things that, accumulating over time, can lead to separation. Examples of such are not keeping one’s word, infidelity, lies, lack of support in difficult times, lack of support when one of the two achieves success.
What 10 things can ruin a love relationship?

1. You take your partner for granted. Even a relationship that rarely has conflicts and has the potential to develop can fall apart if one of the two partners does not value the other, writes az-jenata.bg.

2. You harbor resentment towards your partner. This usually happens when one person keeps their emotions quiet in order not to create conflicts in the relationship, when there is a fear of being abandoned.

3. Accumulation of negative emotions. If you tend to accumulate negative emotions, then a happy relationship is a distant dream for you. This kind of emotions can give rise to jealousy, general mistrust of the loved one.

4. You ignore your partner’s needs. Or he yours. No relationship can be successful and survive if there is a lack of empathy on both sides. Partners who tend to put their own needs first can never have a healthy relationship.

5. There is a blame game between you. Some people tend to blame their partners instead of apologizing when they are wrong. And this can be hard to detect for one in the relationship, since it can manifest itself not only in conflict situations, but also in small things in everyday life. Accusations affect your relationship and destroy all positive emotions.

6. You depend too much on each other. A love relationship is built by two people, but each of them is a separate individual for whom it is important to have a life outside of the relationship. Losing our individuality dooms us to failure in love.

7. Disrespectful treatment of each other. Another reason for love relationships to break up. If you are disrespectful to your partner or vice versa, he is disrespectful to you, then nothing can save your relationship in the long run.

8. Disregarding personal space. Obsession, possessive behavior, towards the other, towards us. One partner sooner or later begins to feel pressured, controlled, it is suggested to him that he should abandon his hobbies, interests, personal development, etc. The personal perimeter is important for everyone in the couple. This is the time when we want reading a good book, seeing friends, attending courses, etc.

9. Treating your partner or you badly in front of your friends or family. This is a continuation of the above lines. Showing disrespect in front of other people, arguing in front of them, exposes your intimate world. This undermines self-confidence, but also gives third parties an opportunity to interfere between you. Relatives and friends can help, but also harm a relationship a lot.

10. You don’t say and show “I love you” often. It’s not just words, it takes action, but sometimes not being able to hear our loved one’s emotions expressed can make us doubt that we are wanted. Showing love should also happen every day. It’s in the little things we do naturally, not force ourselves. However, if they are missing, the relationship can be destroyed.
Maria Atanasova

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