Women’s scenarios. Change scenarios

Women’s scenarios. Change scenarios

Published 19.12.2023 | By Йосиф

Women’s scenarios. Change scenarios

Author: Nina Sumire

Cheating scenarios are a subconscious program aimed at rather strange results (your own infidelities, your husband’s infidelities). All this has its roots in negative, limiting beliefs taken from the circle of communication, from family models of parents, from generic codes, etc.

Possible provocations:

– 1 — The “somewhere is better” syndrome.

If there is an image of an ideal lover in our subconscious, if we have created a program of conditions under which we say “yes” to happiness in our personal life, then no matter what wonderful person we meet, we will still look for that inanimate picture from the subconscious. We will not see our beloved, the only one, we may not recognize him, refuse to come into our lives just because we are waiting for something, someday, not now, we need to wait more, choose another, it is good where we are not, with those who are not with us. Therefore, wise psychologists and psychotechnologists say that you need to dream not about an image, but about your states that you would like to experience next to a loved one.

If our subconscious is not cured of the idealization program, then even when we are in a relationship, we will keep dreaming and waiting, thinking about someone else, others, about a familiar and invented stranger, about a hero from a movie or celebrities. It is especially dangerous when we do this before going to bed: our subconscious mind fixes the idealization program, and we will never be with anyone, unless, of course, we heal, we will not feel loved and happy. In addition, this is treason on a subtle plane, which weakens or even breaks the cordial bond in a couple.

– 2 – “Coquette”.

When a woman dresses, preens for other men, and not for her husband (sometimes a fool walks around at home); flirts with other men, flirts with them.

This can also be a subconscious program when a woman has an associative connection of beliefs: my self-esteem as a woman depends on the attention and compliments of other men. An inferiority complex can manifest itself in this way.

– 3 – “Gossip Girl”.

When a wife tells negative things about her husband behind his back to her friends, relatives, colleagues, fellow travelers on the train, etc.

The reasons for this most often lie in the need to communicate, share your pain, and talk about your life. But if such a woman has a negative worldview, she is not able to talk about something positive, since she only notices mistakes, blunders, flaws in close people.

Healing: The transformation of negative thinking.

– 4 – “Mockingbird”.

When I ridicule, humiliate my husband, insult him, make claims against him in the presence of witnesses (especially in the presence of other men). It’s like getting divorced in public. It is very difficult, almost impossible, to become close, beloved people after that. Men never forget about such things.

The reasons for this are the lack of basic knowledge about family life, about male psychology, the bad influence of the example of the mother or her social circle.

– 5 – “Girlfriend”.

This is a typical scenario of female infidelity.

When a woman stops trusting her husband, communicating with him after conflicts and quarrels, when the relationship goes through a stage of difficulties, trials, alienation, suddenly there is someone who can listen to her. She opens her heart to this “friend”, talks to him about failures in her personal life, asks him for help and, eventually, becomes attached to him.

The reasons for this: inability to communicate with her husband on intimate topics, distrust, hidden resentments and disappointments. The inability to forgive, tolerate and understand leads along a thorny path, as a result, you can stay completely alone, because with such a diagnosis, a program of prohibition on long-term relationships, a tendency to change, to look for a sincere friend is included in a relationship with any man.

It is necessary to urgently take measures to heal from this prohibition, thanks to healing of the subconscious mind, self-awareness exercises, the help of specialists, spiritual practices, etc.

– 6 – “The third extra”.

This is a scenario where the wife can become the third extra herself.

It is very important to notice when we do everything on our own (“everything is on my own, everything is on me, I don’t need anything from you”), refuse to help our husband, do not talk about our difficulties, do not share our thoughts, dreams, ideas, joys.

And then a man, in order to feel like a knight, a defender, can get carried away and start playing the role of a rescuer in the life of a single girl, a more mature woman, just because he wants to realize his resources, feel that I can still perform feats, that someone needs and is dear to me, someone admires me.

This is especially true of the male midlife crisis. If a man does not realize his full potential for caring, protection, and heroism in the family and society, he will look for women from the “little girl” scenario.

I need to ask myself: what does my husband become next to me? Who am I awakening in him? A weakling, a slave, an aggressive, a stranger, a rival, a Don Juan, a child or a Defender, a Breadwinner, a Knight, a Mentor, a Lover, a Friend?

– 7 – “The virus of infidelity”.

I don’t think any special comments are needed here. It is important to know that the circle of communication greatly affects us. Tell me who your friend is, and I’ll tell you what kind of relationship story (or lack thereof) is being written for you.

The virus of a happy long—term relationship is one of the few viruses that will be useful to us. We can become its bearers ourselves!

– 8 – “The Destroyer of ideas”.

We have already talked about this: if a woman does not support her husband in his projects, in his mission, this is also treason. Yes, we women sometimes find his ideas delusional, too fantastic, but it’s worth remembering such inspiring stories.

The story of faith in her husband. A young mechanic worked for an electric company in Detroit for $11 a week. He worked 10 hours a day, and when he came home, he often worked in his shed until midnight, trying to invent a new type of engine. His father believed that the guy was wasting his time, the neighbors called him crazy, no one believed that anything worthwhile would come out of these activities. No one except his wife.…

She helped him work at night, holding a kerosene lamp over his head for several hours. Her hands turned blue, her teeth chattered from the cold, she caught a cold every now and then, but… she believed in her husband so much! Years later, there was a noise from the barn. Neighbors saw a madman and his wife riding along the road without a horse, in the same cart. The weirdo’s name was Henry Ford…

When, interviewing Ford, a certain journalist asked who Ford would like to be in another life, the genius replied simply: “Anyone… As long as my wife is with me.”…

(Excerpt from the book “Women’s scenarios. Healing”)

I wish you happiness!

© Nina Sumire

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