Psychological (emotional) swings

Psychological (emotional) swings

Published 27.11.2023 | By Йосиф

Psychological (emotional) swings

Everyone rode on a swing as a child and knows how cool it is to move from one lift to another.
It’s the same in psychology. Swinging from one extreme to the other – you get emotions. Psychological swings are obtained. At first you love and then you hate – and emotions went, like on a swing.
Why live exactly, it’s better to live like in a TV series and create a swing out of nothing, loving and hating? – representatives of the emotional (sensual) half of humanity sincerely believe. They create their own series in each family.
Have you seen how the stars of show business kiss, hug, like the best friends and immediately pour mud on each other? This is an example of an emotional swing, when they roll from one extreme to the other, and they themselves, along with the audience, are delighted with it.
As the creators of family series do.

At first, they and their girlfriends or mom hate their husbands, creating one extreme. And then, returning home, they hug their husband with extraordinary love and say that he is the best on Earth, creating the second extreme. And between these extremes, the creators of the series exist in the world of emotions formed in this way. And this is the most harmless way to create extremes out of the blue, and there are so many of them. A woman is contradictory precisely because she needs extremes for a swing, and for this opposite judgments and actions are needed. She lives, yes, by emotions. But for such a life, he creates two opposing worlds.

Scientifically speaking, emotions are the difference between two potentials, tension. And a woman creates such a potential difference out of the blue, she creates tension in the family. And such an ability in science is called an “engine”. So, a woman is the engine of the family. She creates extremes, receives energy and supplies the family with this energy. However, from such energy, the husband may have a nervous breakdown. What does it say? “The woman is the keeper of the hearth.” The keeper of the energy hearth, if not to say the reactor.
And it would seem: the usual emotional swings that are needed for pleasure. And if you look at it from the scientific side, even here you will find that it was created for a reason, but for some necessary purpose.
And to put it simply, extremes are created out of nothing, so that there are emotions (feelings) between them and it is much more fun to live in them. Although a quiet, even life would suit me personally.

from Mikhail Rainy

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