Two words that magically affect a man

Two words that magically affect a man

Published 25.11.2023 | By Йосиф

Two words that magically affect a man

If a man has ever told you that he is not ready for a serious relationship, then you know how disappointing it is.

To invest your time and feelings in a guy, then to hear that he doesn’t want anything serious… after that, you can curse the whole male gender in general. But before that, try the following two magic words.

First of all, I want to say that you, of course, will want to argue with him and explain that his reasons why he is not ready are stupid.

But don’t do it.

Otherwise, you will be like his mother, saying and explaining something to him.

And men don’t get their own mothers.

Instead, here’s what to do. When you hear some stupid excuse or excuse from him, say the magic words: “I understand.”

And don’t say anything else. Take a pause, and then he himself will begin to find even more trivial reasons that will make you even more angry and encourage you to start an argument.

But again, instead of arguments and unnecessary words, just say: “I understand.”

This will lead him to the only simple conclusion: “She understands me.”

I’m not saying you have to agree with him. I say that everyone has the right to be, feel and think the way they feel and think.

And although you may disagree with him, saying “I understand”, you recognize his right to such a decision.

At this stage, he himself can offer you a compromise. For example: “But we can continue to meet and see how things work out.” Then you say, “I appreciate that you still want to date me, but I’m not happy with it. I love you, but no more than I love myself.”

He may leave without knowing what to say. And this is not a problem, because men fall in love when they are NOT around you. You need to resist the temptation to call him or write and let him come to you.

If you have the patience to wait until he calls or writes, then when he does, he will already be ready for a serious relationship with you — he will come to it himself.

And if not, then this is not your man.

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