A few facts about relationships the acceptance of which makes life easier

A few facts about relationships, the acceptance of which makes life easier

Published 15.11.2023 | By Йосиф

A few facts about relationships, the acceptance of which makes life easier…

1. It is impossible to save a family. If the relationship falls apart, all attempts to save them are just a postponement. You’ll break up anyway. Either one will agree to endure, and the second will be comfortable to live with him. But this is no longer a family.

2. People don’t get worse after marriage. They have always been like this, but at the beginning of the relationship they tried to seem better. People generally do not change for the better or for the worse.
It’s just that some reveal their abilities and talents, others tear off their masks, in which they suffocated.

3. A child will not save a marriage. With the birth of a child in a dilapidated relationship, the situation will only get worse, because fatigue, nerves, lack of sleep will increase, and free time will decrease.

4. Trying to put pressure on pity or conscience is a stupid idea. If a person periodically does something, knowing that it will hurt you, then he has no love for you, and with tears and suffering you will only disgust him.

5. There is no perfect relationship. Each couple has its own problems, scandals and misunderstandings.

6. Cheating is not the norm. You may not believe it, but not everyone changes. If you forgive infidelity, justifying such stupidity, you are lying to yourself.

7. Relationships will not save you from loneliness. If you feel bad with yourself, having someone around will not fix it, because you will still be with you. You should not start a relationship with someone, but establish it with yourself.

Author: Anastasia Poruchikova

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