Strong women don’t fall in love

Strong women don’t fall in love

Published 11.11.2023 | By Йосиф

Strong women don’t fall in love

Strong women don’t fall in love. They walk in love. Strong women enjoy love, flirt with it, carefully implement it and leave it unharmed. Everyone knows that. Only weak women allow love to affect them. Strong women are not affected by this.

Strong women live their lives by themselves.

They may have affairs, lovers, or even roommates, but never loved ones. Because love makes you a worthless cripple. Love prevents you from achieving what you want from life. Strong women don’t fall in love because love is an emotion. And a real woman does not feel anything in full. She switches her senses on and off like a switch. A real woman is strong because she was able to become impartial.

Is anyone else tired of reading these tirades?

Because I am. I’m tired, and I think I’m not the only one— from the endless multitude of contradictions that we create for each other. From the criticism we face when we love, from the criticism when we don’t love. I’m tired of hearing what it means to be strong and what it means to be weak. What is right and what is not. What we should feel and what we should talk about. We are shamed when we don’t love, and when we are honest about what we want. And we can’t win this game. Therefore, I urge everyone to stop it.

Strength has nothing to do with impartiality. Strength has nothing to do with how quickly/often/successfully you fall in love or stop loving. Strength is a measure of the honesty you bring into your life. And this means that only you decide everything in your life.

Strength means knowing what you want. Strength means fighting for the life you want to live, whether it’s becoming president or staying at home with the kids. Strength means to live by your definition. Strength means ignoring those who underestimate your efforts. Strength means standing your ground, living according to what you believe in.

I believe in love. And I believe in my strength. For me, these concepts go hand in hand, and that’s how it should be. People who scoff at attachment, prefer free relationships, are proud of their independence, will never understand how much strength is needed to love. Show your weaknesses. Put your heart and your desires on the line without any guarantees. My definition of strength is to risk everything I have because I know I can recover if nothing works out.

You can be sad and be strong. You can be scared and be strong. You can put your life back together piece by piece and at the same time be an unbreakable wall. Everyone has their own definition of strength. And you have to live up to it.

“Strong women don’t fall in love” is utter nonsense. And we have to stop telling ourselves that. Strong women understand themselves. They give themselves to every moment of life, whether it is painful, triumphant or incredible. Strong women can be winners, and sometimes trampled. They are not tough nuts that cannot be broken. They fall and get up again, hundreds of times more often than other, weak people who sit in the stands and only judge their choice.

You don’t need strength to avoid what you want. Nor is it necessary to criticize others. You need strength to stand your ground. To admit what you want from life and go for it without worrying about the opinions of others.

Strong women fall in love. And sometimes not. They are building a career. And sometimes they stay at home with their children. Strong women don’t live by the same definition, but what unites them is that they decide how they want to live. And they are trying to do everything possible for this.

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