The main secret of women who are loved seriously and for a long time

The main secret of women who are loved seriously and for a long time

Published 11.11.2023 | By Йосиф

The main secret of women who are loved seriously and for a long time

How often lately we hear accusations of women in commercialism. Men say that women have become very calculating, so it is simply impossible to find a normal wife. I categorically disagree with this. Yes, there are certainly such women, but, oddly enough, they can perfectly arrange their personal life. And many of them are married, and not for the first time.

In my practice, I most often encounter the fact that a girl who cannot build a strong relationship, just does not know how, does not allow herself to accept attentions, support, gifts from a man.

There may be several reasons for this:

1) Parental attitudes: “A woman should be proud”, “You have to pay for everything”, etc.

2) A woman’s lack of confidence that she is worthy of it. Self-doubt, self-attractiveness, personal qualities.

3) A woman is not used to being taken care of, given attention. She just doesn’t have that kind of experience. Therefore, in a relationship with a man, she does not know how to react to the manifestation of care, it does not fit into her usual picture of the world, which means that it can cause anxiety and expectation of some kind of trick.

4) The desire to be comfortable for a man: “Unlike others, I don’t need anything from him,” which, as a rule, is also a consequence of self-doubt.

5) An unconscious desire to compete with a man’s mother or the desire to literally replace his mother: excessive guardianship and care.

6) The desire of a woman to fulfill the role of a man in a couple herself: constantly be the first to give gifts, protect, control a man.

Women who are loved and appreciated by men, with whom they build strong relationships and cherish, enable a man to feel like a man next to them, that is, to show his main masculine qualities: to be a protector, a provider, a giver, that is, to be strong for a woman, to be a giver. To do this, a woman must be a host, otherwise the balance of energy in the couple will be disrupted.

How often to the question: “What should I give you?” the woman replies, “I don’t need anything,” and then resents the fact that the man literally took her words or made a purely symbolic gift. Men, even the smartest, as a rule, do not understand hints. They are just so arranged, and it’s not at all that they are callous and insensitive. Women are much better able to guess the desires of another person, they have a better developed intuition, because nature intended that a woman should feel the desires and needs of a child who cannot yet speak. A man is a defender, he still needs these qualities less.

Therefore, it will be much easier and more pleasant for a man to make a gift to a woman if he does not need to guess, and even with the risk of offending a woman in case of an error. If you want sneakers instead of perfume, say so!

It happens that women scold their men for spending money on flowers for them. But after all, gifting your woman is one of the greatest joys for a normal man!

Let your men be your protectors, help them feel strong next to you, accept support, attention and gifts with love and gratitude.

You deserve all the best, just allow yourself to be weak at least sometimes, allow yourself to accept, and you will see how much your men will want to give you – love, strength, energy, gifts!

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