Just one question that will strengthen the relationship with your loved one

Just one question that will strengthen the relationship with your loved one

Published 11.10.2023 | By Йосиф

Just one question that will strengthen the relationship with your loved one

We all want a strong, long-lasting and happy relationship with a loved one. We want to be loved, appreciated, respected and protected. But as you know, you always need to start with yourself, and therefore if you want such an attitude towards yourself, then first of all you should treat your partner the same way. Also, in addition to this, there is another small way how you can make your relationship really strong and happy for both of you.

This method consists in asking yourself one simple, but no less important question every time before you say something to your partner or do something that will also concern him: “How will my beloved person feel in this case? And won’t it touch him to the quick, and won’t my words or actions hurt him?”

Believe me, the more often you ask yourself this question, the more tenderness, awe and love you will begin to treat your partner. Although, of course, this way of strengthening relationships works only on the condition that not only you, but also your partner begins to regularly ask himself the same question.

After all, you will agree that very often we do or say something first, and only then we think about the consequences of this. But they can be quite deplorable. After all, who would like it when they want to “prick” or hurt him somehow, even if you were very angry at your loved one then? This is especially true when you quarrel and sort things out and in a hurry you can say something that will offend and hurt your partner very much.

Yes, you can then make up and sort of forgive each other all the insults, but in fact any unpleasant words or actions, especially from the dearest person, greatly affect us and, accordingly, our relationship with each other. Unfortunately, they are like rust — they slowly corrode even the seemingly strongest relationships.

Therefore, you should always think about how your actions, words or actions can affect your relationship with your loved one. We need to try to treat each other’s feelings more carefully. It’s so easy to offend us all, and it’s especially painful if all this negativity comes from someone close to you. After all, it is not for nothing that they say that a word can not only hurt, but also kill all those real, sincere and deep feelings that we felt for this person.

Author: Victoria Kirsta

https://www.cluber.com.ua/lifestyle/lichnaya-zhizn/2023/10/vsego-odin-vopros-kotoryj-ukrepit-otnosheniya-s-lyubimym-chelovekom/