FOR RELATIONSHIPS

FOR RELATIONSHIPS

Published 28.03.2018 | By Йосиф

Because nowhere is being studied, how harmonious relationships are being created, but Earth masters are not interested in such, I will try to describe my point of view based on my life experience, which, of course, is very different from yours and it is completely natural, to have a different opinion on the subject. Still, my point of view may seem interesting and useful to someone.
Instruction for Women
The most intense and disappointing is the overwhelming expectation of relationships – it is all suggested that someone should make you happy. No one wants to take responsibility for their own condition and depends on people, circumstances, money, etc. Increased expectation is more typical for women, often found in men, but male disappointment is not so detrimental to relationships.
When the love and euphoria pass away, and the woman begins to sober, she is beginning to find that she is not as happy as she had hoped. This removes the beloved from the pedestal, its rating falls catastrophically, at the same time with respect, and the woman is increasingly beginning to rebuild it. Not while he was on the pedestal, he was perfect without defects and flaws, and failing in the woman’s eyes began to find a chamber of “wrong things,” and after the woman was considered to be more perfect, with fewer shortcomings, the confidence that he has the right to say what is “right” and to insist on his truth.
In fact, people tend to emulate uncritically the relatives who raised them, in whose energy field they have been the longest time. They perceive them as unconditional authorities, and therefore rarely ask themselves whether they have done the right thing. In this way, they repeat the mistakes of their relatives and resign themselves to the ruined relations; they have nowhere seen an example of harmonious coexistence. For example, if the mother had imposed on her father (a man under a slipper), her daughter thought it was quite normal to want to command in her relationship. And if the man beside her grew up in such a family, she does not resist, she does not hold on to her male dignity, which literally crashes into her feminine eyes – she hoped a male shoulder to protect her and bring her to hands “. And the man is showing a soft, who has no opinion and the woman is forced to take responsibility for everything. This leads to a huge disappointment, to constant scandals and to separation, in the hope that he can find something better. But better not to find, even to attract, accidentally, a decent man, with his aspiration to “get on his head”, will drive him very quickly. Because it is impossible that the combination of “good” and “obedient” – if it is good, he will not bend to get on his head, and if he is obedient, he will not be a man, but a man. If a man can not feel like a man, or he gets drunk, or starts looking for something better, or looks to return home as rarely as possible. with his aspiration to “get on his head”, will drive him out very quickly. Because it is impossible that the combination of “good” and “obedient” – if it is good, he will not bend to get on his head, and if he is obedient, he will not be a man, but a man. If a man can not feel like a man, or he gets drunk, or starts looking for something better, or looks to return home as rarely as possible. with his aspiration to “get on his head”, will drive him out very quickly. Because it is impossible that the combination of “good” and “obedient” – if it is good, he will not bend to get on his head, and if he is obedient, he will not be a man, but a man. If a man can not feel like a man, or he gets drunk, or starts looking for something better, or looks to return home as rarely as possible.
You have to keep in mind that even the biggest “dumb son” you can turn into a man, many great men have become such thanks to their wives. You only need to constantly express your respect for him, especially to the people, to thank him for everything he does for you, to support him in all possible ways. This respect will increase his self-esteem and begin to behave like a real man. But you do not have to humiliate yourself, you have to hold on to your dignity, or you can turn it into a tyrant – it all depends on you. The woman can exalt, can and destroy, unfortunately, the latter does much more often, because that’s how society is programmed.
Men’s Instruction
Men, do not let them get on your head, do not imagine that you express your love, so you only make a huge disappointment. When the woman asks you for your opinion, NEVER answer: “You decide for yourself, as you think it is best.” For every thing you have to have your own opinion, this makes you a man and the woman is not responsible for everything. Of course, you should not impose your opinion but hold on to it – but not at all costs. A reasonable compromise will raise you in her eyes more than the stupid stubbornness. Always ask yourself why you stand up for your opinion: to prove yourself or because you think it right. Complexers are always trying to force themselves to prove to others that they are not as bad as they think they think of them.
Respect the woman, but do not laugh with gestures and gifts – so you turn her into a prostitute (waiting for her to pay for everything) and make her imagine that she will very easily “turn your finger.” Respect yours and its dignity, that is, have a measure in everything – gifts are not proof of love, but a big goal.
Run over the head of a woman who wants to repeat her constantly that you love her – if she is not sure she does not feel you, she will turn your life into hell because of her countless fears. Also, run through the head of a woman who thinks you are obliged, believes that you have to follow certain rules and always meet your expectations. Observe how the woman crosses the street, gives priority to cars, if she crosses without looking around, it is indicative that she expects everyone to be “obliged” – rescue yourself immediately, you have come to “homo automusus / zombicus.”